tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1381896735217810948.post4190026996312986669..comments2023-10-31T08:05:21.102-04:00Comments on Blue Ribbon Bloggers: Thinking out loudBlueRibbonBloggershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01566644501318830154noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1381896735217810948.post-77945212202581201772008-03-12T07:59:00.000-04:002008-03-12T07:59:00.000-04:00Hi Surjit,I have sent you a blogger/blogspot invit...Hi Surjit,<BR/>I have sent you a blogger/blogspot invitation, with which you can sign in to this BRB blog as a co-author. Hope this works...<BR/>I have also added your name and link to the list of Original Blue Ribbon Bloggers.<BR/>with kindest regards,<BR/>JosJoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14487705381918822221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1381896735217810948.post-15849097387761202552008-03-12T07:06:00.000-04:002008-03-12T07:06:00.000-04:00Thanks Jos, for your mail. My blog is: http://guru...Thanks Jos, for your mail. My blog is: <BR/>http://gurushabad1.blogspot.com.<BR/>Thanks again for your good wishes and support.<BR/>surjitsurjit singhhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17019241396790475143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1381896735217810948.post-42785820259297588842008-03-12T04:30:00.000-04:002008-03-12T04:30:00.000-04:00Hi Maunie,I agree with Jeane Michelle, that really...Hi Maunie,<BR/><BR/>I agree with Jeane Michelle, that really is a tough situation. <BR/><BR/>I don't think you should be looking back though.. You did what felt right at that very moment, and there really is no better guidance than that feeling. You most definitely saved her and her brother a lot of grief, so I really think what you did was a loving and wonderful thing!!<BR/><BR/>As for the mother in question, my heart aches for her to die with such hateful feelings in her heart. That isn't something I'd wish for anyone.. <BR/>I do not think (or hope..) that something is written with the deliberate intention to hurt anyone. Journals are written to pour out your heart, not with the intention to be read by anyone else.Ellenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00322040886193628741noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1381896735217810948.post-68940055705899936492008-03-11T17:06:00.000-04:002008-03-11T17:06:00.000-04:00Yes, I think your right and I do feel better about...Yes, I think your right and I do feel better about over stepping...<BR/>I'm sure my friend only half remembers what was written and even though she blames me...I feel I saved her unnecessary grief...<BR/>I just loved your story about the mean and nasty women in line..sometimes we have to realize no matter what...some people are just horrible...thanks so much for your insight..mauniejames3https://www.blogger.com/profile/02043502746928897654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1381896735217810948.post-61453970424980516262008-03-11T12:06:00.000-04:002008-03-11T12:06:00.000-04:00Anytime a non-family member is involved, one will ...Anytime a non-family member is involved, one will always be over stepping the boundaries. Perhaps it is easier for your Friend to blame you for having the courage to throw them away than it is for her to accept what was written on those papers. Right or wrong, perhaps best she remember her Mom from her heart and not some possibly private words that were written in the heat of the moments.<BR/><BR/>As for how some Family member or even some People can be so mean, hateful, and hurtful – everyone deals differently with life, pain, problems, etc. Some react out of anger, hurt, etc. – that is their way. I once was in a pharmaceutical line with an elderly lady in a wheel chair with an oxygen tank attached to it. She was upset her medicine wasn’t ready yet and as she waited for her medicine she started saying nasty things to everyone inline. My turn to approach the counter and hear her was coming soon. So I thought, perhaps if I say ‘God Loves You’, she couldn’t say anything mean. I was wrong, she snapped, “Yea God Loves me but He hates you”. Though what she said was awful, I still laugh about such to this day. Cause Maunie some People are just like that no matter what and she is a great reminder of that unfortunate fact.ndpthepoetress Jean Michelle Culphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18421929108208152104noreply@blogger.com